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17.1.10 • 20:06 • 0 comments

Smiling is a self-cultivation

Life is not owed us anything, there is no need to suffer a total straight face. Cope with life is full of gratitude, at least, it gives us life, gave us to survive.

A smile is an attitude to life, with wealth, status, the situation does not necessarily linked.

A rich man might spend all day worried, while a poor may have ease of mind: an openly optimistic about the potential of persons with disabilities; a situation may be smooth with a worried frown, a meeting in bad times people may be smiling ... ...

A person's emotional environment, it is quite normal, but you suffer her face, a Kudachoushen appearance, the situation would not have any right to change, on the contrary, if a smile to live, that would increase in affinity, others more than happy with your contacts, the opportunity to get even greater. Only the heart of sunshine people can feel the reality of the sun, if even their own that were often bitter her face, that life and beautiful? Life is always a mirror shine is our image, when we cry, the people living in crying, when we smile, life is also smiling.

A smile from the heart, neither overbearing nor servile, neither the weak fool, nor is it strong flattery.

Flattery when the smile is a fake laugh, but masks can not last long, and once the opportunity, they will be lowered mask, revealing the original features.

Smile no purpose, either for the boss, or the right guard, it is the same smile, a smile is a respect for others and also the respect for life. Smiling is a "return", the relationships mentioned in physics as the balance of forces, how do you others, others will be how you, your smile for others the more others will be more to your smile more.

Misinterpreted by others in the post, you can choose rage, but also can choose to smile, often smiling forces would be greater because the smile will be shaken each other's souls, exposed open-minded tolerance for each other feel small, ugly.

Qingzheziqing, muddy those now muddy. Sometimes too much explanation, the dispute is not necessary. For those vexatious, deliberately denigrate the person and give him a smile, let the rest of the time to prove something better. At that time, some have tried to say Einstein's theory was wrong, and that there one hundred scientists from testifying, Einstein knew this, just a touch of smiled, and said, 100? To so many people? I really made a mistake if they can prove that a person come out will be fine.

Einstein's theory has undergone the test of time, and those who manage to make a smile defeated.

A smile from the heart, can not be disguised. Maintain the "smile" attitude, life will be even better.

In life there are setbacks and failures, and there is some misunderstanding, it is quite normal, in order to life a smooth sailing, the first step should remove the obstacles in mind. A smile is the essence of love, know how to love people, will not be mediocre.

Smile is the best card in life, who do not want an optimistic person with friends then? Smile, give yourself a confidence, but also give people a kind of confidence, in order to better stimulate their potential.




微笑是一种修养

生活并没有拖欠我们任何东西,所以没有必要总苦着脸。应对生活充满感激,至少,它给了我们生命,给了我们生存的空间。

微笑是对生活的一种态度,跟贫富,地位,处境没有必然的联系。一个富翁可能整天忧心忡忡,而一个穷人可能心情舒畅:一位残疾人可能坦然乐观;一位处境顺利的人可能会愁眉不展,一位身处逆境的人可能会面带微笑……

一个人的情绪受环境的影响,这是很正常的,但你苦着脸,一副苦大仇深的样子,对处境并不会有任何的改变,相反,如果微笑着去生活,那会增加亲和力,别人更乐于跟你交往,得到的机会也会更多。

只有心里有阳光的人,才能感受到现实的阳光,如果连自己都常苦着脸,那生活如何美好?生活始终是一面镜子,照到的是我们的影像,当我们哭泣时,生活在哭泣,当我们微笑时,生活也在微笑。

微笑发自内心,不卑不亢,既不是对弱者的愚弄,也不是对强者的奉承。奉承时的笑容,是一种假笑,而面具是不会长久的,一旦有机会,他们便会除下面具,露出本来的面目。

微笑没有目的,无论是对上司,还是对门卫,那笑容都是一样,微笑是对他人的尊重,同时是对生活的尊重。微笑是有"回报"的,人际关系就像物理学上所说的力的平衡,你怎样对别人,别人就会怎样对你,你对别人的微笑越多,别人对你的微笑也会越多。

在受到别人的曲解后,可以选择暴怒,也可以选择微笑,通常微笑的力量会更大,因为微笑会震撼对方的心灵,显露出来的豁达气度让对方觉得自己渺小,丑陋。

清者自清,浊者自浊。有时候过多的解释、争执是没有必要的。对于那些无理取闹、蓄意诋毁的人,给他一个微笑,剩下的事就让时间去证明好了。

当年,有人处处说爱因斯坦的理论错了,并且说有一百位科学家联合作证,爱因斯坦知道了这件事,只是淡淡的笑了笑,说,一百位?要这么多人?只要证明我真的错了,一个人出面便行了。

爱因斯坦的理论经历了时间的考验,而那些人却让一个微笑打败了。

微笑发自内心,无法伪装。保持“微笑”的心态,人生会更加美好。人生中有挫折有失败,有误解,那是很正常的,要想生活中一片坦途,那么首先就应清除心中的障碍。微笑的实质便是爱,懂得爱的人,一定不会是平庸的。

微笑是人生最好的名片,谁不希望跟一个乐观向上的人交朋友呢?微笑能给自己一种信心,也能给别人一种信心,从而更好地激发潜能。

微笑是朋友间最好的语言,一个自然流露的微笑,胜过千言万语,无论是初次谋面也好,相识已久也好,微笑能拉近人与人之间的距离,另彼此之间倍感温暖。

微笑是一种修养,并且是一种很重要的修养,微笑的实质是亲切,是鼓励,是温馨。真正懂得微笑的人,总是容易获得比别人更多的机会,总是容易取得成功。

xoXO, ♥ Sandy's



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